Promise

She says, “You promised me you would never do that.”

He says, “Promises are meant to be broken.”

She says, “Promises are not meant to be broken, otherwise you would not make the promise.”

He says, “Promises are meant to be broken because if you trust a person, you would not ask him to make a promise.”

Sometimes people break their promises for a better outcome.

You think the outcome would be better but would it be a better outcome for the person you have made your promises with?

I do not argue on the saying, “promises are meant to be broken” but I do keep another saying in mind, “don’t make promises you can’t keep.”

Nothing

<Say nothing>
It is because you have nothing to say? OR
It is because you have things to say but has no one to speak to? OR
It is because you have things to say but no one is willing to listen to you?

<Feel nothing>
It is because you have nothing to feel about? OR
It is because you don’t feel anything? OR
It is because you are trying to hide your feeling?

<Think nothing>
It is because you have nothing to think about? OR
It is because you don’t bother to think about it? OR
It is because you are trying not to think about it?

<Do nothing>
It is because you have nothing to do? OR
It is because you don’t want to do anything? OR
It is because no one is willing to do it with you?

——Just nothing——

Happy Chinese New Year!

In this Chinese New Year, I see:

  • The traffic on the highway was so congested
  • Cars broke down
  • Drivers drove on emergency lane
  • Road accidents on the highway
  • Corruption
  • Passengers thrown out things from the cars

In this season of celebration, please pay more attention to the safety on the road to have a happy Chinese New Year and happy holidays.

Forward Backward

Some people say it is easy to go forward and it is difficult to go backward.

Forward: If you have courage, energy and stamina, you will be able to do it.

Backward: You has to be caution, can stand for humiliation and has patience.

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Some people say it is easy to go backward and it is difficult to go forward.

Forward: It is not easy to have the courage. It needs great effort to culture it.

Backward: Just step aside and you will be away from troubles.

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I would say it is the difference in viewpoints and perspectives.

Sometimes it seems to be difficult but actually it is easy to handle.

Sometimes it seems to be easy but actually it is difficult to handle.

Sometimes it is easy, sometimes it is difficult.

It sounds contradict? Well, life is full of contradictions!

Move forward or backward? I am stuck! >.<

To Care or Not to Care

There are things when you are not aware of them, you will lose them.

There are things when you care about them, it may makes you look unreasonable.

I don’t want to lose it, I don’t want to make myself look unreasonable either.

To care about it, maybe you will say I am nosy or having excessive worry.

Not to care about it, maybe you will say I am indifference or ruthless.

What do you want from me?

I care because I don’t want to lose it.

I care but I didn’t say it out because I didn’t want to make myself look unreasonable.